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Hilfield Friary

There are 19 acres of land to explore here at the Friary, made up of woodland and meadow, kitchen and formal gardens, as well as Brother Vincent’s Secret Garden of Rhododendrons and Camellias. The Friary is situated half way between Dorchester and Sherborne in deepest Dorset, with wonderful views over the Blackmore Vale with great walks all around. It is very quiet, calm and green – both in the visual sense and the ecological one. The Community – and guests over the years – have helped make the place very green indeed with even a reed bed sewage system. They reuse, recycle and repair all that they can, use all low energy bulbs, try to keep their total carbon footprint small with the goal of using less electricity every year, have two wood burning stoves, use water from a bore hole on their land, and are exploring other ways of making the energy they use. People are encouraged to visit here by public transport, and bicycles are available to borrow from the Friary. The garden uses organic gardening methods and kitchen waste is composted for use in the garden. As if this were all not enough to inspire every retreat place, the Friary is designated an AONB (Areas of Outstanding Natural Beauty) and are managing their land to provide many different habitats - wood, meadow and pond. The meadows have been praised by Natural England for their diversity, as well as the orchids, the many different grasses and the wild flowers in early summer. The nearest shop is several miles away and there are no street lights. Visitors are welcome to take part in the life of the Community and each working day begins with a diary meeting to which everyone is invited, and the tasks of the day are assigned. Some examples of the type of retreats or courses here are Buddhism, Christianity and the Violence of the Self, Working for a World without War, Making peace where we live, work and pray, and World Earth Day Celebration.

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Open: 

The Friary is open to stay or visit from Tuesday to Sunday afternoon. The self-catering cottages on the site are available at anytime.

Accommodation: 

The Friary Guest House has 6 single, one downstairs room and 2 twin. Self-catering accommodation in Juniper House with 5 singles, one en suite downstairs, one twin, and a kitchen and lounge. Bernard House has 4 singles, one en suite downstairs, one twin, one double, and a kitchen and lounge. The self-catering cottages have well equipped kitchens for guests to provide their own meals.

Facilities: 

Visitors are welcome to join the community in worship at all of the services; they take place in the main Chapel of St Francis. Clare Chapel and St Mary of the Angels are both available for private prayer. The library is open to all guests as is the guest common room. A large recreation room can be used by day groups and others on request. An art room and workshops are well equipped and may also be available to guests.

Disabled access: 

There are 3 rooms on the ground floor, 2 are en-suite. One is in Leo Guest House, one in Bernard House and one in Juniper House. The bathroom facilities are suitable for people who have a mobility requirement. The doors are not strictly the recommended width but wheelchair users can usually manage them. There are ramps to all areas of the Friary.

Spiritual help: 

Members of the Community, both Brothers, ordained and lay members of the Community are available for spiritual direction, or spiritual companionship.

Guests admitted to: 

Everywhere except in the Community’s private areas.

Meals: 

If you are staying at the Guest House meals can be taken alone, more commonly you would eat with the community in the refectory. The Community bakes its own bread and tries to provide food from the Friary land. There is a vegetarian option with advance notice.

Special activities: 

There is an annual programme of weekends, quiet days and retreats which draw upon both the community and Hilfield and outside speakers. People are welcome to come as private retreatants or bring a self-managed group.

Situation: 

In a good situation in the countryside with great views, a quiet place and dark night sky – lovely!

Maximum stay: 

Tuesday morning to Sunday afternoon.

Bookings: 

Telephone. Letter. Email.

Charges: 

Accommodation is based on a donation recommendation of Guest House GBP 30.00 per person per night. Self-catering GBP 17.50 per person per night with a minimum of four sharing. Retreats and courses vary but range from GBP 85.00 - GBP 100.00 per weekend.

Access: 

Trains or buses arriving at Sherborne, Yeovil or Dorchester can be met.